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Don’t be afraid to get rejected
Dating is a numbers game. You will get denied, shut down, and/or ghosted more than you will be received positively. It doesn’t feel great to get rejected but it feels worse slowly dying alone. Ask the person for their number and give it a go.

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If you put in your dollar, you will get a candy bar of equal value, give and take, "You can't just give or just take, it has to be both. "that's what makes a healthy relationship

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I want a girl or boy covered in tattoos, I want a boy who has a beard and lots of piercings and long hair”. What most of you fail to realise is that looks change, and fade. How about a guy or woman who treats you right, who looks into your eyes and you can see how much they truly love you and admire your company?

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You know why we fail at love, despite trying so hard? We're not prepared for the sacrifices, We're not ready to invest all that it takes to make a relationship work. We want everything easy. We're quitters.

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True love knows someone’s weakness and doesn’t take advantage of them. It knows their flaws and still accepts them

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Your relationship should erase your tears, not your smile. True love doesn’t hurt, it heals. It brings happiness to your life. It empowers you to become the best version of yourself.

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Some people try to fantasize abusive relationship — which is wrong on so many levels. As soon as you see that you’re not getting the love, attention or respect, walk away.

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Someone who truly loves you sees what a mess you can be, how moody you can get, and how hard you can be to handle, but still wants you.

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Love doesn’t hurt you. A person that doesn’t know how to love hurts you. Don’t get it twisted.

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It is far too easy to become NEGATIVE after being dumped. Rather than being bitter, remain open to the possibilities of love. Don’t think of it as getting dumped; think of it as being set free.

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There’s no denying that being rejected by someone you love hurts, but refuse to let it impact your self-esteem. Know your value as a person, and honour your self-worth. Eventually, the right person will come along and you won’t have to prove your worth because he or she will recognize it.

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Sometimes when a relationship ends, it was meant to end. It can be tempting to try to organize a big conversation with an ex, to get real answers for why the relationship ended. before you do that. Prepare your heart for more pain and suffering.

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Understand that people come and go in our lives. and sometimes we have no choice, but to let go of the old and embrace the new.

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I know you don't want to hear this. But it was meant to end. There is someone else out there for you who is a far better match than your former partner. Allow yourself to grieve and then, when you’re ready, consider the possibility of entering a new relationship.

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every team requires a leader, someone who has the final say. A man should be able to Lead in a relationship. That doesn’t rule out the role of the woman to be supportive. In any relationship, both parties have to play their roles to make it successful.

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Be sure you have a life of your own, otherwise it is harder to have a life together. Have your own interests, your own friends, your own support network, and your own hobbies. Overlap where you can, but not being identical should give you something to talk about . . . and helps to expand your horizons as a couple.

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There is no 50/50 in housecleaning, child rearing, vacation planning, dishwasher emptying, gift buying, dinner making, money making, etc. The sooner everyone accepts that, the happier everyone is. We all have things we like to do and hate to do; we all have things we are good at and not so good at. TALK to your partner about those things when it comes to dividing and conquering all the crap that has to get done in life.

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Understand that it is up to you to make yourself happy, it is NOT the job of your spouse. I am not saying you shouldn’t do nice things for each other, or that your partner can’t make you happy sometimes. I am just saying don’t lay expectations on your partner to make you happy. It is not their responsibility. Figure out as individuals what makes you happy as an individual, then you each bring that to the relationship.

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The relationship is a living, breathing thing. Much like the body and muscles, it cannot get stronger without stress and challenge. You have to fight. You have to hash things out. Obstacles make the marriage.

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It’s tough to accept that some people will never be ready to move on from the past. No matter how much time you put into your relationship, it seems that the wounds aren’t going to heal, and your partner isn’t going to be able to let go of their feelings. If you’re getting tired of feeling like you need to chase after someone who doesn’t want to be with you anymore, consider this alternative approach to closure: just walk away and find someone who does want you instead.

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Love brings your heart into relationship -- and when the heart is in relationship there is always pain.

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If you are someone who wants to be loved but you are living a reckless and unpeaceful life, it’s time to rethink the way you are living. Before you invest yourself in someone else and wait for someone special to love you, love yourself first

Don't use the word 'pain'. When the love arrow goes deep into your heart, close your eyes and don't use the word pain, and you will never see it as pain, but as a lesson

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Abuse isn't just physical violence. If your partner uses anger and intimidation, even indirectly, to make you feel like you have to act a certain way, or be home at a certain time or you'll get in trouble then you're in an abusive situation. No person should feel like a prisoner to the desires of another person, or a constant victim of their anger.

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Forgiveness is NOT forgetting. Forgetting would only happen with a lobotomy. And forgiveness doesn’t mean we continue to expose ourselves to pain. FORGIVING MEANS WE ALLOW HEALING TO TAKE PLACE

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Relationships can be hard so this channel exist to give out some relationship advice on what to do! and what not to do! in a relationship so you can have a healthy and well balanced relationship while avoiding toxic relationships and abusive relationships