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Esther Perel talks a lot about that back in the 50's we would get married because we felt it was a practical partnership and we could build a good life together. We could build a life together and they also have to be my soul mate, my best friend, funny, good looking and we're expecting a whole community of needs to be met by one person. So if you are working on your own stuff and finding out how to meet more of your own needs in an adaptive way then you're not going to expect so much out of your partner and you will be able to accept them for who they are.

Q: Why do you think we have less of that community that works to build good lives together?

A: I think Social Media plays a part in it. We feel more connected but sitting at home and liking pictures on your Instagram is not the same as sitting here and having a 1-on-1 conversation with you. So it's a false level of connection. I think there is also a lot more pressure to be busy and to be achieving and being perfect.

Q: What is the correlation between that and the anxiety and depression now that the rates have gone up in this day and age?

A: You're looking at Social Media and you're looking at someones' highlight reel and our brains just don't know how to process that. The way it evolved is that the way I was looking at in front of me is the truth. You're looking at the best parts of everyone's lives and thinking..."everyone is living better than I am".

Find Registered Psychologist Dr Lindsay At Our Mount Royal Calgary, "Mount Royal Shop" Location! And View Her Profile Here To Find Booking Availability:

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On this episode, Zac is joined by Dr. Lindsay to talk all about how limiting beliefs show up in our relationships.

Sometimes people think they need couples counselling, when they actually need some intense individual therapy. Zac Erickson and Dr. Lindsay Sewall help tease these apart so you can recognize when limiting beliefs are at the core of relationship issues.Limiting beliefs can look like perfectionism, sensitivity to rejection, or an unwillingness to consider someone else's perspective. We go over several different limiting beliefs and how they show up in your relationship.

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Esther Perel talks a lot about that back in the 50's we would get married because we felt it was a practical partnership and we could build a good life together. We could build a life together and they also have to be my soul mate, my best friend, funny, good looking and we're expecting a whole community of needs to be met by one person. So if you are working on your own stuff and finding out how to meet more of your own needs in an adaptive way then you're not going to expect so much out of your partner and you will be able to accept them for who they are.

Q: Why do you think we have less of that community that works to build good lives together?

A: I think Social Media plays a part in it. We feel more connected but sitting at home and liking pictures on your Instagram is not the same as sitting here and having a 1-on-1 conversation with you. So it's a false level of connection. I think there is also a lot more pressure to be busy and to be achieving and being perfect.

Q: What is the correlation between that and the anxiety and depression now that the rates have gone up in this day and age?

A: You're looking at Social Media and you're looking at someones' highlight reel and our brains just don't know how to process that. The way it evolved is that the way I was looking at in front of me is the truth. You're looking at the best parts of everyone's lives and thinking..."everyone is living better than I am".

Find Registered Psychologist Dr Lindsay At Our Mount Royal Calgary, "Mount Royal Shop" Location! And View Her Profile Here To Find Booking Availability:

https://shiftpsych.com/team/lindsay-sewall/

Call Today: (587) 392-5649
Mount Royal Shop: 908 17 Ave SW #303, Calgary, AB T2T 0A3
https://shiftpsych.com/shops/calgary/mount-royal-17th-ave/

We're expanding to our new location opening Monday, July 8th:
815 17 Ave SW #210, Calgary, AB T2T 0A1

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https://shiftpsych.com/
Esther Perel talks a lot about that back in the 50's we would get married because we felt it was a practical partnership and we could build a good life together. We could build a life together and they also have to be my soul mate, my best friend, funny, good looking and we're expecting a whole community of needs to be met by one person. So if you are working on your own stuff and finding out how to meet more of your own needs in an adaptive way then you're not going to expect so much out of your partner and you will be able to accept them for who they are.

Q: Why do you think we have less of that community?

A: I think Social Media plays a part in it. We feel more connected but sitting at home and liking pictures on your Instagram is not the same as sitting here and having a 1-on-1 conversation with you. So it's a false level of connection. I think there is also a lot more pressure to be busy and to be achieving and being perfect.

Q: What is the correlation between that and the anxiety and depression now that the rates have gone up in this day and age?

A: You're looking at Social Media and you're looking at someones' highlight reel and our brains just don't know how to process that. The way it evolved is that the way I was looking at in front of me is the truth. You're looking at the best parts of everyone's lives and thinking..."everyone is living better than I am".

Find Registered Psychologist Dr Lindsay At Our Mount Royal Calgary, "Mount Royal Shop" Location! And View Her Profile Here To Find Booking Availability:

https://shiftpsych.com/team/lindsay-sewall/

Call Today: (587) 392-5649
Mount Royal Shop: 908 17 Ave SW #303, Calgary, AB T2T 0A3
https://shiftpsych.com/shops/calgary/mount-royal-17th-ave/

We're expanding to our new location opening Monday, July 8th:
815 17 Ave SW #210, Calgary, AB T2T 0A1

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Find Registered Psychologist Dr Lindsay At Our Mount Royal Calgary, "Mount Royal Shop" Location! And View Her Profile Here To Find Booking Availability:

https://shiftpsych.com/team/lindsay-sewall/

https://shiftpsych.com/
Call Today: (587) 392-5649
Mount Royal Shop: 908 17 Ave SW #303, Calgary, AB T2T 0A3

We're expanding to our new location opening Monday, July 8th:
815 17 Ave SW #210, Calgary, AB T2T 0A1

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Find Registered Provisional Psychologist At Our 124th Street, Edmonton, "124street Shop" Location! And View His Profile Here To Find Booking Availability: https://shiftpsych.com/team/zac-erickson/

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Find Registered Psychologist Kristi Landry At Our South Edmonton, "South Common Shop" Location! And View Her Profile Here To Find Booking Availability:

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Find Registered Provisional Psychologist At Our 124th Street, Edmonton, "124street Shop" Location! And View His Profile Here To Find Booking Availability: https://shiftpsych.com/team/zac-erickson/

Mural Credit: Jubilation & Aggression by Matt Clarke

Dungeons & Dragons is a tabletop game that is half telling stories and half board game. It's basically a bunch of adults sitting around the table going, ""Pew Pew Pew Pew"

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Find Registered Provisional Psychologist, Katherine Hannis. At Our 124th Street, Edmonton, "124street Shop" Location! And View Her Profile Here To Find Booking Availability: https://shiftpsych.com/team/katherine-hannis/

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Being able to watch the incredible change. It can happen fast but realistically bearing witness to the change is the whole reason that Katherine is here at Shift.

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Find Coach/Intern Al Visram At Our 124th Street, Edmonton, "124street Shop" Location! And View His Profile Here To Find Booking Availability: https://shiftpsych.com/team/al-visram/

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If we're talking about adding something into your life it would be self-reflection to figure out who you are and what makes you... you... And Embody That...

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Call Today: (780) 705-6471
124street Shop: 10445 124 St, Edmonton, AB T5N 1R7

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Find Coach/Intern Al Visram At Our 124th Street, Edmonton, "124street Shop" Location! And View His Profile Here To Find Booking Availability: https://shiftpsych.com/team/al-visram/

Mural Credit: Jubilation & Aggression by Matt Clarke

Al muses about an old Star Trek episode as it relates to the concept of loneliness and the resulting impact on people.

https://shiftpsych.com/
Call Today: (780) 705-6471
124street Shop: 10445 124 St, Edmonton, AB T5N 1R7

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Find Registered Psychologist Kristi Landry At Our South Edmonton, "South Common Shop" Location! And View Her Profile Here To Find Booking Availability:

https://shiftpsych.com/team/kristi-landry/

https://shiftpsych.com/
Call Today: (587) 523-3780
South Common Shop: 9148 23 Ave NW #203, Edmonton, AB T6N 1H9

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Find Coach/Intern Al Visram At Our 124th Street, Edmonton, "124street Shop" Location! And View His Profile Here To Find Booking Availability: https://shiftpsych.com/team/al-visram/

Al muses about an old Star Trek episode as it relates to the concept of loneliness and the resulting impact on people.

https://shiftpsych.com/
Call Today: (780) 705-6471
124street Shop: 10445 124 St, Edmonton, AB T5N 1R7

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Find Registered Provisional Psychologist Jena Iuliano At Our South Edmonton, "South Common Shop" Location! And View Her Profile Here To Find Booking Availability: https://shiftpsych.com/team/jena-iuliano/

For anxiety, mindfulness is a huge component when dealing with emotions. Understanding where in the body certain emotions effect other than the mind itself. When the client participates in the mindfulness and grounding techniques they can focus on where they are feeling the tension.

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Call Today: (587) 523-3780
South Common Shop: 9148 23 Ave NW #203, Edmonton, AB T6N 1H9

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This week The Shift Show focuses on conflict resolution and communicating with people in difficult situations.

Andrea McTague and Zac Erickson discuss avoiding the pitfalls of conflicts and trying to get to the root of the conflict with the people in your life in the healthiest way possible. What do you do in the situations that become conflictual relationships as opposed to conflictual situations?Andrea notes that the best place to start is with self because you can control for that. Why is this such a big deal for you in the first place?  Sometimes you are working on a project with someone and you really need that person to do "their half" to progress. Another need is that you need someone to think you are important or make you feel important. The latter indicates a need that does not actually originate from the relationship itself and thus cannot be solved within the present conflict. Once focused on yourself, try and determine where that need is coming from. Conflict around functional needs often involves those "tit-for-tat" arguments. We have to sort through these arguments to determine which points are functional or which points are dysfunctional.If you're interested in knowing more about the Shift Couples Protocol then you can learn more.

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Zac's history of dealing with ADHD

Zac discusses being able to understand some of the symptoms that his ADHD created in childhood. Not being able to sustain mental effort in early assignments in school. When something was not stimulating enough to hold his attention in childhood he often encountered shame-based accusations of being lazy, stupid or destructive.Zac also discusses the often neglected, positive coping strategies and behaviours which ADHD may produce. Zac also refers to the book, "Delivered from Distraction: Getting the Most out of Life with Attention Deficit Disorder", by Edward M. Hallowell (Author), John J. Ratey (Author). It covers some of the advantageous characteristics of ADHD. Creativity, "out-of-the-box" thinking, a zany sense of humour, the highly intuitive style just to name a few.Olga explores anxiety as a secondary symptom or co-morbid disorders that present as a result of untreated ADHD. On average children receive as much as 10X negative feedback from adults. Over time, depending on the personality of the child and depending on if the child has supportive adult figures in their life; children can suffer anxiety or depressive disorders. As an example, Oppositional Defiant Disorder has often been linked to the constant negative feedback which, over time can produce an anti-authority reaction in adulthood.Olga asks Zac about his experience with medication in reference to ADHD or ADD symptoms. Zac mentions that there are scary ideas out there about it but he has had a good experience with it and he is able to "adult" now. He also shares that his wife mentioned(probably in jest) that it may have saved their marriage. He goes on to note the saying that. "Pills don't teach skills", suggesting that there is really no replacement for learning the coping skills or behaviours associated with a problem. The idea is that the best outcomes will com..

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Toxicity is an element that deprives us from developing correctly. Psychological toxicity is the ongoing occurrence of patterns that negatively effect our ability to navigate our natural environment effectively.When we are young we have to figure things out and navigate our realities very quickly. During periods of high stimulation we depend on our emotional systems to determine threats or unbalance in our environments. We are wired to trust our parents and depend on them to protect us. If they aren't placing adequate protections in place for us then we assume that it must be our fault.

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In honour of Remembrance Day, Zac interviews CPT Matthew Dudley, Human Resources Officer of the United States Army, and his wife, Shannon.When Shannon and Matthew first met, he was deployed to Iraq. Five months into his time there, Matthew came home for two weeks, and they got married. He then left for another seven months."There were some times that I wondered if I was going to be 19 year-old widow," Shannon says."I had my first reality check after we got hit by a car bomb," Matthew says. "That shook me because it made me realize, ‘Woah… I could have been disintegrated'."But their love and relationship remained strong, not without a lot of hard work and understanding.“When you have a spouse who is a bit broken, you just have to be really accepting for who [they are]. You get really vulnerable really quickly because if you don’t, things just break apart,” Shannon says. Thank you for your service, Matthew, and for your strength, Shannon.

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When does recreational use of a substance turn into abusing it? What effect does substance use have on your health and well-being?

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The post 020 Appetite for Life Halloween Special: Fear at Deadmonton appeared first on The Shift Show.

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How are family dynamics changing over time? What needs to be done to create a nurturing and stable family? Zac and Andrea take an in depth look into the family dynamic. Specifically, what each partner needs to do in order to satisfy the needs of the family members and what communication between one another should look like.Intro music courtesy of Bensound

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What is the best way to relax and calm your mind? We all have different tools that we use to deal with issues such as anxiety, stress, depression, etc. But, have you ever tried floating in a sensory deprivation tank? According to Matthew Smith and Jamie Phillips from Modern Gravity, floating is one way that people can reduce anxiety and find that sense of calm in their mind.The duo founded their business in 2014, starting out with a sensory deprivation tank in the laundry room of their basement. Shocked by the influx of clients they had, they decided to expand their business. Now, Smith and Phillips have half a dozen tanks and are committed to helping people find that sense of peace and happiness that floating has to offer.What is floating exactly? Listen to our latest episode and find out! Website: https://www.moderngravity.ca/Facebookhttps://www.facebook.com/moderngravity/Instagramhttps://www.instagram.com/moderngravity/Twitterhttps://twitter.com/moderngravity Intro music courtesy of Bensound

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On this week's episode, Zac and Andrea discuss money – specifically how to spend in a way to have a fulfilling life. Referencing a study for Purdue University, Zac and Andrea analyze how people spend money and look into the factors that cause bad spending habits. Andrea shares her experiences with money and offers insight to the age old question: Can money buy happiness?Intro music courtesy of Bensound

Dr. Kristine Wolski discusses adult education and specializing in understanding how to help people grow, learn, share and change. She eventually focused on harnessing the power of narrative to affect real change in peoples lives. Allowing people to move away from their old frameworks of reference and make changes to affectively, in her particular case, stay out of prison. Zac mentions that limiting beliefs can often be the destabilizing factor which undermines one's personal story or myth. Kristine points out that there are foundational lessons that can be derived from stories in terms of not just, "what to do" but also, "what not to do".

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Meet Divina Diefor, Alberta's Drag Superstar 2017 and member of the Imperial Sovereign Court of the Wild Rose. She has been studying drag for six years, and performing for three.Diefor has struggled with the limiting beliefs ‘I don't fit', ‘I don't belong', and ‘I'm not understood', but has managed to overcome those beliefs through the art of drag."I see Devina as a storyteller," Diefor says. "I see her as sort of every woman in the world… she tells the story of different people, of different women, of different lives.""I explore what it means to be a queer person but also what it means to be feminine in different contexts," she adds."It has really helped me shape my understanding of the queer community and what we have gone through."Stay tuned for a follow-up to this episode as Divina Diefor transforms our psychologist Kristi Landry into a drag queen!

This week's episode of The Shift Show's Appetite for Life segment is in celebration of the Edmonton Pride Festival, kicking off June 8 until the 17th.https://www.edmontonpride.ca/ Intro music courtesy of Bensound

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Our philosophy of psychological dysfunction is rooted in attachment and trauma theory. Later you will hear about such treatment techniques as Cognitive Behavioural Therapy(CBT) and EMDR however, when the secure bond between a parent and child is disrupted it creates insecure and anxious attachments.

These weakened attachments create opportunity for children to begin to have limiting beliefs about themselves and problematic behaviours and emotional dysregulation can occur. These limiting beliefs are irrational in nature, however, due to the egocentric nature of children the belief created is treated as if it is true. When there is damage to the attachment bond or when life events occur such as death, divorce, abandonment, poverty, etc. a child has then been exposed to trauma.

Disruptive events also create opportunity for limiting beliefs to form and to grow within the person to create maladaptive behaviours, thoughts and beliefs. These memories require processing in order to be stored in declarative memory where the emotionality around them is significantly reduced if not eliminated.