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This video is brought to you by a donation from the one the only, the queen of meow that likes to take a bow, fat cat and here's what she has to say: "Hi Sandman, I’d like your opinion on something regarding my son. There have been some complications with my health and the things I’ve been working towards are falling apart. So I've been thinking about my living arrangements with my son and husband. My first option is to do nothing and continue living in the same house with both of them. But in that case I’m most likely to turn bitter and resentful. I’m also most likely to take this out on my son and his dad. By far the worst option I have. I don’t have the luxury of not doing anything. My second option is relocating the entire family. It has the most financial gain because I would be able to work for my father and earn a very good income. The boy is so young that it won’t affect him very much. My in-laws of course will be angry, because this is their only grandchild. He would go along with this for our son. I suspect he would resent me at some point and it will lead to our break-up over something stupid in due time. My third option is to relocate with just my son. I have all the necessary resources to take care of him. I would have no problem letting our son stay with his dad during vacations. Weekends won’t be an option because of the distance of me working for my family on another continent. If his dad has extra time off, he is welcome to spent it with his son as long as it does not upset our son’s daily routine. Example: If the boy is in daycare, he can pick him up, do anything they like provided our son is in bed on time. When he gets older there will be the condition of needing to homework. The fourth option is relocating alone. Since his dad does not have all the necessary resources they will be living in my property, at least at the start. I want my son to have it anyway after I'm gone. I will be drowning myself in work to help pay/save money for our son. It will be similar to when I was drowning myself with schoolwork as a way of coping. The harder the subject, the better. I prefer this one. I consider my son to be reflection of me and how I raise him. As young as he is, I’m already drilling in some fundamentals, like strict bedtimes. I think if there’s no one to restrain me, I’ll grow into a tiger mom with ridiculous high standards. It’s what I’m used to doing. On a side note my parents would be thrilled with option 1. Option 2 would not sit well with them. Yet they're telling me not to do anything and instead be supportive of him because good old fashion family values. Because this man of mine is not happy with any of the options. So now I’m working out a few more. My parents hired a lawyer for a lawsuit I plan to file against the government regarding my health issues. I’m going along with this because if we have no case it will be the end of it. If we do have a case and we end up winning the I’ll be lot less resentful and have more options to stay. I’ll have better job opportunities as well. I already had an offer and they are willing to wait if everything clears out. The keyword being if. I don’t thinks so. The most likely option for staying are other jobs I can get and even in that regard I already have an offer. They prefer me soon then later, but it can wait. With the hours I can work and taking care of my son, I’d be making less than minimum wage. It would be the lowest income, apart from doing nothing. I’ll be honest and say I place a lot a value on my independence. If something go’s wrong I won’t be able to support myself, let alone with a child. It freaks me out just as my dad offering me a job. My dad and I know I won’t be able to take over after him and I’m not willing to put the same trust in my siblings as I do with him. I going to pick my poison. I was wonder what type effects these options would have on my son. I have about a year so I don’t have to rush my decision." Well fat cat thanks for the donation and topic. I'm sure there are tons of people rotten tomatoes at their screens as they hear you've made another request after a very long hiatus. But before I give you my advice let me first tell you about today's sponsor Me The Sandman:
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