Copied from https://youtu.be/ufpnqi3Ufvs
Here's a quote from the book:
"One thing about malignant narcissism that I cannot stress enough is that it's All - About - Control.
NARCISSISM IS ABOUT CONTROL. Every single motivation behi…
Copied from https://youtu.be/ufpnqi3Ufvs
Here's a quote from the book:
"One thing about malignant narcissism that I cannot stress enough is that it's All - About - Control.
NARCISSISM IS ABOUT CONTROL. Every single motivation behind the narcissist's abuse stems from a pathological need to control what others think, feel, say, and do. Every loathsome narcissistic trait such as covetousness, entitlement, greed and predation is an off-shoot of the narcissist's delusion of control over the entire world, and everyone, and everything in it.
What does it mean to be in CONTROL all-the-time? It means you hold all the POWER. It means you are SUPERIOR. It means you are a GOD.
Narcissists find their "identity" in POWER. The more power they wield, the stronger their identity as an omnipotent God becomes. As a result, every waking moment of the narcissists' wretched existence is devoted to proving to themselves and to those in the pathological space -- their mini universe -- that they are Masters of the Universe. This isn't hard to do, because like their minds, the narcissist's world is usually very small.
Narcissists discover their "identity" in POWER and CONTROL. The view themselves as supreme beings in charge of everyone and everything. The narcissist also equates "love" with power and control. In other words, you prove your "love" to a narcissists by relinquishing all your power and allowing them absolute control over you. By allowing the narcissist to control and abuse you -- have power over you -- you are enabling the narcissist's malignant self-love. You are feeding the narcissist's delusion of grandeur. Narcissistic supply is simply allowing the narcissist to control you."
Highly recommended for those doing high-level matrix studies. This book will give you a much better idea about what humanity is dealing with.
Breaking Free: A Way Out for Adult Children of Narcissists Paperback – September 1, 2016
https://www.amazon.com/Breaking-Free-Adult-Children-Narcissists/dp/0995260303/ref=tmm_pap_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&qid=1468630832&sr=8-1
