2022-03-23 OUTDOOR MILONGA HELMOND CS

For the first time in 23 years dancing tango, a dance teacher was interested in finding out how I can dance with beginners and literally form one body on 4 legs, instead of just looking like one, like it's being taught in their lessons.

Like most other dancers, she is used to the idea that we both create a connection but, when I tell her that if she takes full responsibility for this connection,
I can focus on moving her weight to 1 leg so I can move her other leg into a step, putting my leg in the place where her leg used to be.

So after having had several dances struggling to find her connection, we decided to give it another try.
Now we miraculously melt together, as she stops moving trying to follow me and starts letting my movement move her.

What a wonderful experience! Even better when she even thanks me for sharing this.

Did you find out by now that being yourself, is the only requirement for being able to be 1 body on 4 legs,
and that, keeping up appearances like looking like 1 body on 4 legs, will keep you from understanding reality?