Pre-marital troubles – SEE ALSO 4-minute Church SHORT CUT: Man is the head of his wife and corrects her; it doesn't mean "dominate" https://youtu.be/7UYwFZqmIFc
A man say that he doesn't "get" the order of God (for a …
Pre-marital troubles – SEE ALSO 4-minute Church SHORT CUT: Man is the head of his wife and corrects her; it doesn't mean "dominate" https://youtu.be/7UYwFZqmIFc
A man say that he doesn't "get" the order of God (for a man to be the head of his wife — not the household). His father tried to be the head, but he was a bad example of it — rude and mean to his wife. Now this man says his girlfriend gets to him. He's unclear whether his girlfriend is his fiancee. She asks him questions and gets on his nerves, but she just wants him to do right. People at Church offered feedback to both of them.
Jesse urged the girlfriend: Just leave him alone. When you press the issue, you're imposing your will on him. If you ask him what's wrong, and he says nothing, just drop it at that point. Don't pressure or nag him. He's an adult — even with children, you should not impose on them by forcing them to talk to you. If you let it go, then they can freely come back and open up to you. You doing that with him — you're creating a mother-son relationship.
Mothers, let go!
The girlfriend said he seemed bothered after talking with his mother. But he said that he was not bothered — he may have raised his voice, but he was not angry.
Many mothers don't want to let go of their adult children. Jesse told about a 20-year-old Brazilian man who called his show this past week. He wants to move out, but his mother doesn't want him to move. So she called her best friend, a pastor's wife — to come pray the "demons" out of his bedroom. She thought that "demons" were telling him to leave home!
SEE ALSO 5-minute radio show video: Man's Mother Called Pastor's Wife to Pray "Little Demons" Away https://youtu.be/M9O1L-K7N3g
In sex, there is no love –
Jesse caught the man holding his girlfriend's hand. He explained that he held her hand because she may feel "alone" right now. But Jesse joked that "she's tougher then you." This man admitted he'd hated his mother, and even cut off communication f..
