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This video is brought to you by a donation from James. He didn't send me a topic so I wanted to cover a reddit post with the same title as this video called: "Life Is Longer When You're Single" and the person posting there named Calm Elk has this to say and I quote: "Life feels longer when you're single. I was supposed to spend my life from 30-60 with a woman and kids but now I'm planning on being single for the rest of my life. Something doesn't feel right. It's like that time period isn't supposed to be spent alone. It just feels too long. I'm trying to keep myself busy. It's must harder to live life on autopilot when you're not working so much and having to live up to society's expectations. I'm constantly able to have a lot of time alone to think and I can't just escape my thoughts. In MGTOW married men say that men die earlier because they want to escape marriage. I don't want to escape life or get married because I'm bored. How do you deal with life feeling longer when you're trapped in your head?" Well James thanks for the donation and answering Calm Elk's question would make a great topic. I'll cover it in just one moment but let me first tell everyone about today's sponsor The Brave Browser: Anyways, now back to clown world. The first thing that stood out to me from Calm Elk was when he said that it's much harder to live life on autopilot when you're not working so much. Why would anyone want to live life on autopilot unless they were scared to think about reality and think for themselves? The way I've gotten over the idea of living the next twenty, thirty, forty years, etc alone is by filling up my life with more purpose then I can achieve and that's when I learned that life doesn't feel empty anymore. How you do that is up to you. I've known the answer for this question in my life for quite some time. But another person that asks it is Jordan Peterson. He says that life is short but it's also long. What are you going to do for thirty or forty years without a family? He says there are very few people that can do it but he doesn't say why they are like that and if you can become like them too. Calm Elk you're going to have to spend the second half of your life with no family Christmas. No birthday parties with a family either. It's liberating, sad and scary at the same time. Liberating because your life is to do what you wish. Sad because you're then end of your genetic line, if you care about such things and scary because you're going to face an existential with regards to finding a new purpose or face an existential crisis which seems to be what you're doing right now. When I was in my late twenties I saw two paths in life. One life lived in an interesting way doing outlandish things and becoming a professional shit disturber. Or live the other life which was all about family and settling down. When I was proposed to by a woman I said yes and then changed my mind and said no and kicked the whore to the door. I didn't think I was ready but would be someday. Living with women also drove me insane. I had to take tranquilizers a couple of times. I thought I hadn't found the right woman. I thought I wanted kids but now I realize I would stress so much about them that it would ruin my life. The same with stressing over a wife. Stress has been bad for my health so I can only imagine the horrible pain I would be in if were to marry and have a family. I enjoy peace and quiet above all else. I'm not anxious and lonely the way Jordan Peterson appears to be.
