First published at 00:29 UTC on April 4th, 2022.
A Chinese girl sitting down nearby, seems to be living in the Netherlands, speaking good Dutch.
We have an interesting chat and when we decide to go dancing, she cuttles up close against my chest.
But the moment I start leading her, she disconnect…
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A Chinese girl sitting down nearby, seems to be living in the Netherlands, speaking good Dutch.
We have an interesting chat and when we decide to go dancing, she cuttles up close against my chest.
But the moment I start leading her, she disconnects trying "support" me in leading her.
As I leave her all the space she needs moving around it seems to feel like a whole lot of freedom she doesn't know how to handle.
When she slowly feels comfortable enough to come closer and let herself be moved by me, she tells me how frightening it feels to receive so much freedom.
In other words, if any kind of leader gives you freedom to decide yourself what you want, it can actually feel frightening, if you are used to letting others decide for you.
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