I just want to make the point that once realizing there are those with narcissist natures in this world, and that they are common, you can still be around them and benefit from them as long as you are duly aware of how they are constituted and how they function.
There's no need to completely close down and conclude this reality is evil beyond reproach. Learn how evil people can be, be vigilant, and understand that most people are living in the EGO where they need to feel superior and flattered. If you threaten their ego reality, they may want to murder you. That's how it is, and you just need to understand how these realities exist and function, same as how one understands how to use electricity and gasoline for their benefit.
Yes, narcissists can be dangerous, just like snakes can be dangerous, but that's not the full story.
If you are empathic like I am, you've probably transgressed and offended countless narcs without ever meaning to do that and without knowing it, same as how a child may accidentally provoke a bee to sting.
Yes, when scorned a narc is most deadly, but as long as you know what you are dealing with, and you know how it functions and how to respect it, I think you should be able get along with them and benefit from them.
Remember that commentary I've written in the past was never made to stand the test of time, just to provide thoughts, insights, and perspectives at the times I made those comments. Especially I wanted to hear from others.
This latest commentary is also why those closing down and considering evil beyond reproach this world are wrong, in my view. This reality is complex and vast, but it has so much to offer us as long as we have a good understanding of the many dangers it presents.
And if you want to be political, approach it from a space of optimism and love, with love for the truth and for the beauty of this reality. The "black pill" approach isn't wise, nor is it wise to dehumanize those you deem your enemies.
When you dehumanize people, they become what you believe they are. They become worse and they become more deadly foes.
Remember that online there is a great tendency toward groupthink, where everyone reinforces everyone else, and we absorb the emotions of those we surround ourselves with.
Most of the content seems good and helpful initially, but then you end up sunk in quicksand. Too many people talking and not enough true wisdom with an eye for productive solutions.
