I believe that dancing with a total stranger,
will always inspire us to live a better life,
enjoying differences instead of letting them annoy us
or learning from those differences that help to lead a better life.
Although being special for just 1 person, seems to be important to us,
feeling connected with more than 1 person,
probably helps us feeling better about ourselves,
But are we capable to enjoy seeing our beloved one, feeling connected with others?
Or would we rather see our beloved one enjoying to see us feeling connected with others?
If we enjoy this mutual development together,
all these external experiences could be turning the ABC that we would experience by ourselves,
into ABCx3
For example:
Some pleasures you can experience by dancing.
A the pleasure of movement.
B the pleasure of hugging.
C the pleasure of conversation.
Sharing these pleasures with more than one person, they would be multiplied like this:
A. Not only the pleasure of conversation with your partner but...
1 with anyone.
2 using mutual feedback on communication skills.
3 enjoying mutual adventurous conversation experiences.
B. Not only the pleasure of movement together but also....
1 practicing with others.
2 as often as you both like
3 enjoying mutual practice experiences.
C. Not only the pleasure of hugging with eachother, but also....
1with anyone you feel comfortable with doing so.
2 enjoying different ways you greet different people.
3 enjoying mutual intimate experiences.
It already seems to sound common to us to protect our beloved ones against the big bad world.
But what if the world isn't that bad after all?
What if there's only a few bad people, that happen to be in charge because they know exactly how to control us and keep us divided?
So that we dance to their pipes as we say in the Netherlands. :-)
That's why we learn steps instead of practicing to connect and move 1 body on 4 legs.
Learning steps will keep you moving seperately, trying to look connected, forever spending money on lessons.
Learning to understand how you already know how to connect takes only 1 lesson and a lifetime to enjoy growing this skill.
