MANY WANT INSTANT DELIVERANCE FROM THEIR PAIN WITHOUT ANY EFFORT TO CHANGE

Message from "Nelson Schuman" https://www.youtube.com/@NelsonSchuman

Many of us want delivered from our pain without any effort to change on our part. Many want healed of the sicknesses and pains in their bodies without having to truly forgive all who ever hurt them so that God can forgive them for those they hurt and walk in good health. They want to look thin or strong without cutting out sugars and fried food from their diet and exercising every day. They want delivered from smoking without actually enduring any pain from withdrawal symptoms. They want to be blessed in their lives without changing their sinful behavior to obey the Bible. They want to be elevated to leading a ministry without consecrating their lives to total obedience to the Lord and sacrificing their financial living arrangements. They say they want freed from porn and masturbating yet won’t stop looking at porn, lusting and masturbating because it feels good to their flesh. They want to be delivered from poverty yet refuse to tithe regularly and waste money on addictions and foolish temporal things. They want to be rich without having to work or stop wasting money on themselves. They want a relationship with their child without apologizing for the things they said or did that hurt them. They want to be happily married but don’t want to pursue soul wound healing and deliverance and admitting the truth of what they did to hurt their spouse and repenting for their own pride and being honest and humbling themselves. They want all the blessings and favor from the Lord without changing to repent from the sin in their lives and sacrificing their fleshly desires for godly behavior.

Some married a spouse who lied to them about being a Christian as they had no intentions of treating them like God would want. They have been emotionally abused for years and their spouse has told them they will not change. They have prayed and fasted but God has told them that He cannot override their abusive spouse’s freewill to deliver them. So God has told them they need to separate and divorce their spouse in order to be free from the abuse and be able to truly serve the Lord because their spouse refuses to change. They have not obeyed God as they have instead made an idol of their spouse before God. They have refused to leave because it is hard to explain to religious church people who will look down on them and shame them with “God hates divorce” without reading the entire scripture within context where God reprimands the man who deals treacherously with his wife and abuses her which causes the divorce.

“But did He not make them one, Having a remnant of the Spirit? And why one? He seeks godly offspring. Therefore take heed to your spirit, And let none deal treacherously with the wife of his youth. “For the Lord God of Israel says That He hates divorce, For it covers one’s garment with violence,” Says the Lord of hosts. “Therefore take heed to your spirit, That you do not deal treacherously.””
‭‭Malachi‬ ‭2‬:‭15‬-‭16‬ ‭NKJV‬‬

Therefore the abused are more afraid of what religious people will say or think instead of obeying God. I know of a woman who stayed with her emotionally abusive husband too long until she developed a brain tumor at age 40 due to the emotional abuse from her husband and then she died.

For most who are abusive it’s easier to blame others instead of looking at the mirror at ourselves and admitting that we need to change. We need to give to the Lord areas of our lives that are not healthy for us. Anger, bitterness, demons. Most who are abusive in a marriage want their spouse to change by having them just tolerate the abuse so they don’t have to change and can keep abusing them. They want their spouse to simply be a slave to them. To be obedient to their selfish demands instead of they themselves changing to become more Christlike and admitting they were wrong in their treatment of them all along.

It’s hard to change. Hard to forgive people from our hearts. Hard to repent for pride and walk in humility. Hard to long suffer and be patient. Hard to be kind to people who are mean to us. Hard to obey the Bible and starve our flesh. Hard to fast from food we like. Hard to turn off movies that are bad, stop listening to ungodly songs. Hard to live righteously according to the Word. Hard to stand up to people with the Jezebel spirit and tell them no because they will yell at you.

When you won’t crucify your flesh privately your flesh will crucify you publicly. When you walk in pride privately the Lord will often humble you publicly.

When a person has been hurt for 30-40 years and has anger and bitterness and hears demonic spirits you usually won’t see them get healed and delivered in a day, a week or a month. It often will take a year or longer for the sanctification process to be complete. Especially when they have been told by the church that they couldn’t have demons because they are a Christian.