How To Not Get Black Pilled About Relationships

Not gonna lie this is an ironic video because this video has a downer vibe even though it is talking about not getting black pilled (as it comes to relationships.)

My advice (which I am taking myself, not as to relationships but in relationship to politics) is to realize that there are and always has been good and bad in the world, both within different people groups but also within different generations and countries.

When thinking about male/female relations I believe after some level of awareness about how feminism has affected the mindset and actions of women to the determent of both men and women, focusing any more on feminism is not actually helpful. If anyone watches enough youtube videos highlighting poor attitudes and actions of any people group, they can develop a disproportionately large bias against that group that makes it much harder to find a quality person within that people group (even if they claim that is their desire.) It affects the filter in which you see things and it often leads to being defensive, over sensitive and stuck in a victim mentality. While feminism has encouraged this dynamic in women against men (and that is what this channel spoke against), to some extent, the opposite happens in the political right against women.

If you don't want to get black pilled my encouragement is to drastically reduce the time and energy you spend focusing on the negativity that you don't like and instead focus on what you want more of in your life. Having awareness is one thing, but at some point new incidents happen, but there's nothing that is new. That's when it's time to just focus on God's goodness, live your life and reach your goals without the distraction and negativity of news and politics. That's where I am and why this is my last video unless I feel called otherwise.