https://www.thesun.co.uk/dear-deidre/10371198/sex-with-three-men-pregnant/
DEAR DEIDRE: I WENT on a last-minute holiday with girlfriends. My husband told me to let my hair down and have some fun while he stayed at home with the children.
I did just that — I had sex with three different guys and have ended up pregnant. I am now out of my mind with worry.
I had sex with three different men on my girl's holiday
I had sex with three different men on my girl's holiday {imagine that - a nice girl from a nice family}
I am 35 and know I should have had more sense. I have a wonderful husband, a home and a boy and a girl aged eight and ten. I want for nothing, really.
Four of my friends had booked a holiday in the Canaries. Two were single and two divorced, so they were out for a good time. One girl’s mum got ill so they asked if I’d like to go in her place, and my husband was all for it.
It was like I was 20 again. We met a group of men in their late twenties. They had been students together and had a few days away every year as a sort of reunion. They were also letting their hair down.
We all had a lot to drink and went for an evening stroll along the beach. The guy walking beside me put his arm round my shoulder and whispered that he thought I was gorgeous, the best-looking in our group.
I was flattered. My husband never gives compliments. When he whispered again, this time to go back to his room with him and leave the others to get on with their walk, I said OK.
I woke up next to the guy in the morning. It was only then that I realised I didn’t even know his name. But I had given myself permission to go wild. During the rest of the holiday, I then had sex with another two guys.
I was on the Pill so thought I was safe, but I had an upset tummy while I was there and I guess that meant it didn’t work.
My husband is delighted I am expecting another child but I don’t even know who is the dad. Should I confess?
Dear Deidre - tap to read our Agony Aunt's advice
DEIDRE SAYS: Start by talking to your GP or midwife, to be sure of when you conceived.
Official pregnancy dating is from the start of your last period. So could this be your husband’s baby after all? Assuming you did conceive on holiday, think of the repercussions of telling him what you got up to, and the fallout for your children.
If you decide to keep it all to yourself, you need to keep that secret for ever — and to be sure the friends you holidayed with will keep their mouths shut, too.
When this is sorted, try giving your husband a compliment sometimes. This may boost his confidence and encourage him to do the same. Think about arranging some reciprocal babysitting, too, so you and he can have some fun times out together.
