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This is important material. I had an abusive parent, but I moved out and got on with my life. However it was keeping tabs on me, becoming very envious, and conspiring to destroy me. I didn't understand what was going on because I didn't know about these conditions. I never understood the child abuse until piecing together the puzzle as an adult that my parent was a severe malignant narcissist. Pure evil with an advanced suite of disguises and tactics.
If I had it my way, children would be taught early on about these conditions because they need to be quickly identified else these covert demons can and will inflict great damages against the naive. They are very bizarre and confusing people if you don't have the proper framework for understanding what is going on.
In my case it made zero sense to me why my own parent would want me destroyed. Consider that at my core I have the most positive and loving nature with the best intentions for those around me, so these sadistic and evil natures were particularly confounding. They take full advantage of that confusion. Where I feel love and want to create, they feel hate and want to destroy.
This is an important reality that must be fully understood. In the case of my parent, love is an impossibility. A severe malignant narc literally can not love, period. It's not in the wiring. Loving children set them off and become targets of abuse just for showing them love.
The malignant narc is in a war against God, and the loving child is seen as an extension of God. The malignant narc is satisfied inflicting damages against the child while God apparently stands by helpless and humiliated, incapable of defending His own children. This emboldens the abuser.
It's important to understand when you see "narcissist" in content like this, it's not referring to benign excessive pride or vanity. I'd use a different term, but narcissist is what all these videos use, and it's a correct term except that at the pop culture level it's been so diluted.
I know now my parent is a severe case, but malignant narcs are prevalent in general. You don't notice them unless you're targeted or onto them because they stay disguised as much as possible.
People in general are ignorant about these matters. How do I know? Because they commonly say things like, "But she's your mother." "But he's your father."
That further confuses the target because they can't figure out why their own immediate family would have evil intentions against their own blood.
Evidently biological family means nothing to them except that it allows better access to a target with more leniency and less chance of exposure and consequences.
On the outside looking in, you can't generally tell they are abusers. Everything is convincingly blamed on the target. If the abuser is very successful in their tactics, the target will take responsibility for the abuse as though the abuser were just reacting to things the target did wrong.
This is like the saying about crying out in pain while striking. The abuser always has a reason for their horrible behavior and it's always something the target has done. In my case the abuser's mother gaslighted me so that I wouldn't until adulthood, at best, figure out the nature of what I was dealing with. Her mother definitely knew because she had the same condition!
Because the abuser has no conscience for others, they are capable of anything without remorse. The only thing holding them in line is fear of consequences. Yes, they fear worldly consequences else they would openly murder.
However, they don't fear karma, they don't fear God, and they seem to believe nothing in life will satisfy them so much as destroying the target. It's a supernatural degree of rage, and I know from experience nothing can ameliorate it.
Understanding these most severe cases is helpful for understanding more everyday manifestations because it's all the same evil.
You'll also stop with the nonsense about viewing Whites as saints for fact of being European. It's not true at all. I would any day rather friendship with a non-malignant African or Ashkenazi than a malignant White European. Any day, every day, without question.
Careful not to judge too much by the bodies people are in! The body doesn't necessarily tell you anything about the spirit inside.
"Our cognitive bias makes us think others are like us. We can't wrap our heads around such twisted people and constantly revert to believing they are not so bad. Learn to believe that evil is real. Your life may depend on it."
"I think that the biggest problem we have regarding narcissists, is understanding how evil they are!"
"I think the fact that they actually do want to destroy you is the hardest part to accept...these people are corrosive, malignant, mean spirited, toxic terrorists....you wanted to save them...they wanted to destroy you..."
